Telling your parents you wet the bed.
That’s right up there with cleaning your room, taking a spelling test, and going to the dentist – all in the same day! To make it easier on your child, try coming up with a system for the morning pee report (perhaps you want to give it a different name).
Your child will feel less embarrassed if they can count on a time and place to talk to you quietly in private. See if you can set aside some a regular time each morning to be available to your child.
It’s important to make sure your child doesn’t have to tell you in front of their brothers and sisters. Siblings are notorious teasers. But even if their only sibling is a 17-year-old sister that would never tease, your child still doesn’t want to announce
“I wet the bed. Please pass the Cheerios,”
at the breakfast table.
Another good idea is to have a system where your child checks in with you every morning – whether or not they wet the bed. For instance, you might make a chart where the two of you mark wet and dry nights. That way your child doesn’t have to approach you solely to report accidents. It will be like a daily routine rather than a dreaded confessional. Your morning time together will be a way to show your child their progress and can actually be a positive thing.
Children really do take comfort in routines. With a system in place, your child won’t feel like the “I wet the bed” report is a disruption to everyone’s morning ritual.
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